I have a twelve-year-old cat who survived a house fire in which two of his housemates…
What a devastating experience. Isn’t it interesting that although cats may not seem to get along—they still miss each other? If he acted like he didn’t get along with the other cats, I wouldn’t advise adopting a new kitty to solve his current issues. Adopting a cat almost never “cures” a behavior concern and may actually create new ones inadvertently.
It sounds trite, but time really does heal some of these concerns. It may be that this boy had trouble competing for your attention with the other cats around, and now has you all to himself. Spending quality time with him while you are home goes a long way toward helping him feel more comfortable and confident. Most cats normally sleep up to sixteen hours a day. So even though you’re gone for long stretches, chances are he’s napping when you’re gone.
When cats must lose beloved companions, it can be helpful for them to view the body so they know what’s happened and don’t search endlessly for the missing friend. If they witness a traumatic death, we can’t know exactly what they feel but cats must be frightened and concerned. Just talking to them, spending time with them, will help them know you’re there and not going anywhere. Stick to routines. Those can be very comforting.
Original post by Cat Advice (Emotional): Purina® Cat Chow® Mentor Amy Shojai and software by Elliott Back
